Signal of love

How do you know if you are falling in love? How do you know if he/she falls in love with you? It is really funny that I am concerning on that matters now, lol. Seriuosly, I am focusing on studying how to realize the signal of love between lovers.

This research is not for myself, of course. I have a plan to write a book to my angels, Fatty and Thinny, lol. Since I drove my car to collect Fatty from his school, both of us have many interesting discussion of love, the love of teenagers. Remind you that Fatty is 12, and he has much curiousity of gender. I couldnt remember if I was curious at that age, so it seems that this is so funny with me when listening him talking of love. His school mates, especially girls, fall in love many times during….a semester, lol. At the beginning of semester, she fell in love with one boy studying the same class, this boy was excellent in studying and he always be the head boy with highest mark. This glistering love was demolished by another boy who was shortest of his class, lolzzz. Fatty said to me that he couldnt understand why she could fell in love with that shortest boy, who possessed no attractive characteristics. A few weeks later, he said to me that his girl friend fell in love with another boy studying in another class….That love story seems infinitive with many other girls and boys. At he end of each story Fatty always concluded that “Such a complicated girl!!”.

The story of Thinny was so much funny than Fatty’s. Last night. Thinny was so serious when talking with me. He said that his boy friends set up a group who were professional in …revenging. I was so nervous when listening what he said at first. He said that the major aim of this group was to revenge a girl who was rumored that she fell in love with… two boys at the same time. One boy was good at learning English and the other was management of his class. And the way of revenge was that they would show their tongue whenever they saw her. I asked Thinny if he checked that information, he said that it was definitely right because his boy who sat next to him said that, lol.

Sometimes I pretended to tell them that “Mom heard that one beautiful girl is falling in love with you” in order to know whether my sons fall in love with someone. However, there is no signal to show that my sons were stick with that feelings. I dont know whether they are so ugly or so shy to have a girl friend, but if they havent got any in this time, that is a good news to their Mom, honestly.

Anyway, I have to learn some skill to inspect that love feeling. I have to discover that to…postpone their feelings. Though knowing that it is natural if they like some girls, but I still feel scary if they have that feelings at this age. While I still haven’t found out any good solution for this situation, I think that the smart decision is to ask their father. But hoping that he just says to me “You are my first love, and I have not any woman before and after you, so I have no experience on that!” It is so sweet, though I know that 110% chance of this is just…a liar.

Anyway, I have to start my plan as soon as possible!

Will I love horse?

Nowadays car is the most popular traffic transportation, moreover car becomes modern society (of course, if you disapprove this view could you find any car in the prehistoric period?). Car creates to human comfortable life, safety on street and moreover it could protect woman’s white skin. I like this factor the most, since I drove my car for working, I don’t have to cover all my face by mask, or wear long-sleeve skirt, my skin is whiter than before, lol. Generally, I love car!

But my happiness will be paid by high price….I don’t mention of petrol or other guarantee service which car must be done for transportation. I bother of Vietnam’s policy. A few days ago, Dinh La Thang Minister of transportation department said that “Car is the reason causing traffic jam, in order to reduce car numbers, State should put levy on car” and the level of levy which he requires is VND50mil/year/car (equivalent to USD2,000/year/car). Of course there are many approvals and disapprovals as well. And they said that the disapproval opinions belong to car’s owners, lol. And Minister said that the more you paid levy, the more you love country….Ohoo, I did not know that why he had that innocent thoughts, there are no relation between pay tax and love emotion. From his statement, this could be explained: the poor men don’t love Vietnam country, because they don’t contribute tax…

Yesterday, I heard that there was another suggestion of reducing the car numbers, that was 5×5 solution. As this solution, all car would be forbidden on street 5 hours per day and 5 days per week…It is so easy for all people to think that if there is no solution, it is better to forbid all…Anyway, that is a thought in many inventional thoughts, some people said that this solution opens to him a new opportunity, he would purchase…horses for selling to all people! Obviously, if car is forbidden, the motorcycle would be next, then bicycle…Horse would be the safe solution for all, and he would be rich by this forbidden policy…And I love this smart idea, anyway all modern transportation come from the capitalist countries, and the deepest reason causing traffic jam is from the…capitalist countries. Vietnam is a socialist country, so it is better to forbid all that capitalist products!

Wow, this country will be cleaner, fresher without cars. Anyway, we will come back the prehistoric time as if car haven’t existed in this life! And I have to learn the way to love horse in replacing car!

I am be back!

It seems that long long time ago I had a new post…Last few months I was so much busy at finalizing some financial reports to tax office because deadline was 31^st  March. Everything becomes disasters on 30^th March as usual, but it would be great on 31^st March as well….Such my life!

Now I have more time with my blog, with my emotions, with my own thoughts. Life is so boring without sharing emotions with someone…That is my view of life and I usually get more talks with friends, with strangers (sometimes it is so dangerous! lol),which I found out pearls between them, that is a great present I received from this life!

This life is so strange, admittedly. Sometimes I couldn’t catch up my friends’ mind. Last few weeks, one of my friend, no exactly he is my old director, asked me about IAS28-Investment in Associates and VAS07 which is Vietnam accounting standard of associate’s investment. Though I was so busy, but I still tried answering his question. No matter what I tried explaining, giving him the link, his response was “u misunderstood me” or “I disagree with u”…And I realized that my effort would lead to zero result…I wrote to him “After I try running for a long time, I realize that I…stand still”. I gave up lighting his mind. Anyway he is an interesting director with his own thoughts and characteristics, but I think he is too old to accept this new world (pray that he doesn’t know my post!), how could he get his mind without referring or reading IAS…He wrote to me “I didn’t have time to read IAS in details but I still don’t agree with u!”…Hope that when I am at his age, I will be opened minded and accept this world rule as it is!

ACCA had sent my certificate…I become that organization’s  membership…I am so honor to participate one of this largest organization…I started learning ACCA since 2007, it seems that I went through a long journey with much difficulty. But I always feel happy when remembering that so nice time. Hard working, hard studying and at last I achieved my own purpose (though up to now, I did not know when I use this certificate!). I know that wonderful time would never repeat once in my life. That is a mixture and complex emotions of being happy and regretful….Sometimes I wish I could pull back time to be back that wonderful time, together with my wonderful ACCA’s friends, reviewing that crazy knowledge (which I used it to explain to that odd director and receiving nothing!), enjoying the feeling of passing exams, sharing the failing results with my friends…That so beautiful time I have ever had!

It would be a big mistake if I ignore Fatty and Thinny in this post! Fatty is preparing his final exams of 6^th grade, Thinny is doing his English test today. And I am waiting for him and I have nothing to do except composing some poetry, lol. As all mothers in this world, I love them so much!

Welcome back to my blog!

The heat of recession

A few year ago, it was so easy to get a part-time job. All the work to find a job was in one click. Many employers tried to employ staff with many benefits. I remember that I used to deny many offers just because of its far location. That poor employers were so angry when knowing that I did not work for them just because I did not like to travel 10 kms per…month. Perhaps I was so valuable at that time and I thought that it was so easy to get a part-time job. But I have to pay for that stupid thought few days ago

I finished ACCA and I really want to gain more as part-time accountant. I advertised myself on a famous newspaper. Then I sat and waited and hoped. But hope has become hopeless when I received no offer. I had changed at least 3 times my advertisement to make it more attractive, however I still havent received any call.

Sweetheart husband said that I should not  loose my heart and keep going to achieve target…And I know that I have to be patient. But in the honest, I left this market too long to fulfill ACCA, so I am shocked at what happened. Ooh hooo, I could not imagine that nobody call to me during a week…Fortunately, I have a good job now and I can bear my life during this difficult period. I don not have to run and knock at the employers’ door to beg them to give me a chance…Luckily, I have my husband who always shares his hands whenever I need…But I have to think of cutting budget of some expenses to save. After few days of waiting I realize that my husband is so great…Nobody give me money as easy as him…sweetheart husband, you should know that I love you so much, especially when you give all of your salary to me!

Pray that this difficult time pass over soon!

Wish all the best!

3 days count down to Happy Lunar year! Time pass so fast… year end with many hopes and wishes are still in head, not become true. But life is going and live means hoping…

Hoping a safe and wealthy life

Hoping Fatty, Thinny and Daddy to be heathy

Hoping Fatty and Thinny to study well and to be at the highest achievement in the new year

Hoping Fatty and Thinny to be lucky in learning and in life

Hoping Daddy to earn more and give Mommy more (wow, it’s so great!)

Hoping Mommy to have a higher salary and bonus

….

There are so many hopes in Mom’s head and heart, but the most wants of Mom is that the safety of all of our family’s member

This is the last day of year Mom working at office. Mom will come back home with Fatty and Thinny this afternoon. Before going to Mom’s office, Mom, Fatty and THinny had already cleaned our house to congratulate new Luna year. Mom is so much happy that Fatty and Thinny helped Mom to do all housework without complaining!

Daddy will come back home this evening. Daddy is in Hanoi for a meeting. Daddy had already visit grandparents’ house which is near meeting room. Mom just wishes that Fatty and Thinny will remember Mom as Daddy does to grandparents. Daddy is a good son and well-behaved. Mom is trying to teach Fatty and Thinny to have love in heart, and always there are eternal flames of love in your heart…That will help you to pass the difficulties in this life…

This afternoon Mom will carry Fatty, Thinny and Diem Quynh who is F&T’s cousin to flower market. We will enjoy the beauty of life and Mom hopes that all of you will never forget this time. That is the time we are all together, full of love and take care each other. As the plan, Fatty and Thinny will draw some pictures of Tet memory. The topic will be opened-choice, and Mom hopes that your products-that beautiful picture- will help you to save your emotion longer and longer…

Fatty and Thinny! Fatty and Thinny! Mom loves you so much! You are all Mom’s world!

Pray for all the best!

Bonus

At the year end, staff usually receive thirteen-month-salary as Vietnam law, and in case company has profit in business, it will share a part of benefit to employees- so called bonus. Thirteen-month-salary is obliged under Vietnam law. The labour receive an additional salary at the year end. In order to make positive feelings to employees, the employer tells them that “This year we will have some bonus”, but in fact he just pays thirteen-month-salary!

This year Vietnam economy is in deep recession but it is not at the bottom of this recession as some economists. Many employers and companies were and are being broken. They dont have cash to pay salary to employees, in replace they pay their products to employees! That becomes disaster to poor employees, especially workers. Imaginatively, if company produces sweets, workers will receive sweets for their deserving, so how could he find the way to store that sweets. You could say that he should sell that products to gain cash. But…Clearly, that company is not able to consume its products, neither is he. I have heard that he has to beg his relatives to consume and receive that sweets because his family could not eat all of that products.

In case of producing mash for pigs, or worse, producing…san**ry…What should he do with that product????

Luckily, my company still pays me by cash not insurance products…Though that amount is not high but it is real cash…Thanks Gods! This traditional holiday I will carry Fatty and Thinny to a luxury restaurant to have Japanese food, and buy a new mobile phone to sweetheart hubby. Then he has to buy a new gold or diamond ring for me, of course…That is so much beautiful dream for traditional holiday, is not it?

ACCA…What the hell is that???

ACCA disaster was already completed in last Aug 2011, but its consequences have been still continued impacting on me up to now…

On 5th Nove 2011 i received a bill of “Membership Admission fee” of P193. Historically, I took ACCA due to think that I had to study some stuff to wake up my mind after some years non-studying. I did not think that ACCA was so much difficult like that. Firstly, I took F6 and I passed without much difficulty, then I thought that I should try another papers…F5 anf F7 were the next step and they were not easy, but they were still under my control…The hell opened when I took F8…Then my life was sunk into the dark and fearness…Always being worried by failing and most of all that was i had to pay fee due to my stupidity…

But Gods love me…I just failed F8 and P1… The other papers just were over at the first attempt…I did not think that I were stupid person until I took a part in the ACCA exam…Especially, theory paper was the challenge and beat me indeed!!! But at last, I grin at ACCA in Aug 2011 which was after 3.5 years of being a stupid student!!!!

I muttered myself…”Wow, I am affiliate at last”…But the happiness survived not long…That smile disappeared out of my face when I received the first bill in Nov…I havent paid it up to now!

193 pounds of being administrated…That is a cutting-head price which ACCA set up to its poor customers…However, sweetheart husband told me that he would spend the on me (wow, you are the most loving person in this earth! I love you so much whenever you pay all my expenses, honestly). He put cash into my Visa card to pay that fee last weekend, and I rush to pay that fee this morning…But the hell happened again…

ACCA charged 101 pounds for being first affiliate! This is the first year I am accepted by ACCA, and I have to pay first…I just want to pay admission fee first, then I have to come back home and beg my “sweet cash printer” to give me more money to pay that crazy fees…But ACCA required me to pay at total amount…

What the hell is ACCA??? ACCA has not got humanity! ACCA is greedy! ACCA is…

I am trying to be professional as I swear with ACCA so I have to stop pushing bad words to ACCA, lol

Have to come back and flutter my sweet heart hubby to get more money to pay ACCA…What is the life!